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A Note from Rabbi Treu
In Jewish time, a new day begins in the evening, as darkness falls. So too, a new year begins in the fall. There is deep wisdom in this: before we can grow—toward a new dawn, a new spring—we first need to put down roots. We need to prepare to begin again.
Who do you want to be in 5787? How will you find yourself?
Part of finding ourselves is repotting ourselves into the nourishing soil of Jewish community. From the forgiveness prayers of Slichot through Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, and Sukkot—culminating in Shemini Atzeret and Simchat Torah—we deepen our roots. That is what enables us to grow into our best next selves. That is what renews our relationships and our spirits.
It’s easy to get lost in the many opportunities the Jewish calendar offers at this time of year. Below is the full list. If you’re wondering how to navigate it, here’s our advice: give yourself the gift of being part of the build.
The Torah planned the month as a giant, building spiritual retreat – across the month, and within each service and holiday itself. Think about how you want to experience it as a whole. How do you want to experience the month? Each holiday? Each service and opportunity for community gathering? How do you want to be a part of it – for yourself, your family, the Jewish people as a whole?
As the community gathers, as we come through the monthlong journey, we can all feel the swell together. We remember that none of us is seeking alone. Together, we are putting down roots so that we can grow new branches in the year ahead.
“It is a tree of life for all who hold fast to it.” May we all be inscribed and sealed in the Book of Life—the Tree of Life—for a year of goodness, peace, prosperity, health, joy, and beautiful beginnings, endings, and moments in between.
Rosh Hashanah
Friday, September 11
5:30 pm: Rosh Hashanah in the Park. Arrival at 5 pm for 5:30 pm service. Memorial Park, 580 Valley Street, Maplewood. Join us for this Oheb tradition, and bring your own chair or blanket!
6:45 pm: Evening Service (Ma’ariv) at Memorial Park, 580 Valley Street, Maplewood
Please note Ma’ariv will be held in the park, following the RH in the Park gathering. We will not be holding services at Oheb.
Saturday, September 12 and Sunday, September 13
9 am-1 pm: Rosh Hashanah Morning Services
Services begin at 9 am and run until about 1:15 pm. Approximate times within that time frame are below. Be part of the build! Help build the energy by beginning with the end in mind: decide how long you want to be there for, and work backwards from there! Please note that Shofar is not blown on Shabbat, so to hear Shofar please join on Sunday, Rosh Hashanah Day 2.
9 am: Shaharit (Morning Service, led by Charles Wantman)
10 am: Torah service
11 am: Shofar service (Day 2/Sunday only) and Sermon
11:45 am: Musaf service (that’s the part with the “who shall live, who shall die” prayer and other greatest hits)
10:30 am – 1:30 pm: Grade Level Programming
Offered on 1st day of Rosh Hashanah and on Yom Kippur.
This program is set up as stations with holiday activities designed for children from Kindergarten to 6th grade. There is supervision and these are drop off programs. Children will be able to come and go freely between the activity room and the sanctuary.
10:30 am – 1:30 pm: Babysitting
Offered on 1st and 2nd days of Rosh Hashanah and on Yom Kippur.
For children in Kindergarten and younger. Children must be potty-trained.
NO registration required.
Sunday, September 13
Time TBD: Tashlich
Symbolically casting our sins away by throwing crumbs or pebbles into a river. Following services, meet at the Duck Pond in Flood Hill. This service will be led by our Cantorial Soloist, Leilah Rosen.
Sunday, September 27
9:45 am-noon: Shabbat Shuvah
Shabbat morning services for the shabbat between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, known as Shabbat Shuvah, the Shabbat of Return. Lunch (kiddush) served as always after — a great way to start the new year for you and your family.
Yom Kippur
Friday, September 20
6:15-8:15 pm: Kol Nidre
Saturday, September 21
Yom Kippur Services
9 am: Shaharit (Morning Service)
10:15 am: Torah service
11 am-2 pm: Rabbi Treu’s Sermon, Yizkor, and Musaf Service
2:30-4 pm: Isaiah 57:14-58:14 and the Heart of the Torah
4:20 pm: Minchah (Afternoon Service, including recitation of the Book of Jonah, led by Charlie Shapiro)
5:45 pm: Neilah (Closing Service)
7:36 pm: Fast ends with final Shofar blast and Havdalah
Parents, please bring your children to Murnick Social Hall at 7:10 pm to line up for the light parade
Youth Programming
10:30 am-1:30 pm: Grade Level Programming
Designed for children from Kindergarten to 6th grade. There is supervision and these are drop off programs. Children will be able to come and go freely between the activity room and the sanctuary.
10 am-1:30 pm: Babysitting
For children in Kindergarten and younger. Children must be potty-trained. No registration required.
11 am-noon: Teens Help in the Food Pantry
All post B-Mitzvah teens are invited to help organize supplies in the food pantry. No registration required.
Community programming
Following services: Break the Fast
Sponsored generously by Ed Zinbarg in celebration of 50 years of membership at Oheb
Sukkot
Sunday, September 20
8 am, parking lot: Men’s Club Sukkah Construction
11:30 am, parking lot: Community Sukkah Decorating
Friday, September 25
Dinners 5:30 & 7 pm, Service at 6 pm: Sukkot First Friday & Dinner
In-person and via Livestream
Generously sponsored by Michael and Marlene Karu, in honor of Marlene’s 70th birthday.
Pricing:
$24 until Tue, Sep 22
$36 after Tue, Sep 22
Under 18 always Free
Saturday and Sunday, September 26 and 27
9:45 am-noon: Sukkot Morning
Monday, September 28-Friday, October 2
8 am: Services for Hol HaMoed Sukkot on Zoom (note: services on Wednesday, September 30 and Friday, October 2 [Hoshanah Rabbah] will also take place in person at Oheb)
Shemini Atzeret and Simchat Torah
Saturday, October 3
9:45 am-noon: Shemini Atzeret Service
In-person and via Livestream. Yizkor will be around 11 am.
5:45-8 pm: Simchat Torah Dinner & Celebration
Join us for Ma’ariv, followed by hakafot dancing, singing, and a giant Torah party!
Sunday, October 4
9:30 am: Simchat Torah Services at CBI
The joy continues on Simchat Torah morning, Sunday, October 4 as we join our friends at Congregation B’nai Israel (160 Millburn Avenue, Millburn) to celebrate the Torah. Kiddush lunch to follow. To join CBI via Zoom, click here. To call in by phone: 1-929-436-2866. Meeting ID: 861-1042-1793. Password: CBI.
Lulav & Etrog Set
To make sure you have your set in time for Sukkot, click the button below.
Deadline to order is Fri, Sep 18. Pick-up is on Fri, Sep 25.
To learn more about the symbolism of the lulav & etrog, click here.
Membership Directory
Connect with Our Community & Share Your New Year Wishes!
The annual Oheb Membership Directory is the go-to guide for keeping our congregation connected all year long. Distributed in print during the High Holy Days, it puts your message directly into the hands of hundreds of engaged local households.
Why place an ad?
Support Oheb & Grow Your Business: Showcase your local business or services to a loyal, community-minded audience.
Share High Holy Day Greetings: Honor a cherished tradition by publishing your personal New Year wishes to fellow members.
Submission Details: submit ads via button below camera-ready as a high-resolution .jpg or .pdf by Thursday, August 20th.
All ad content is subject to final approval.
Book of Remembrance
Some memories deserve a permanent home. Oheb’s Book of Remembrance is a lasting tribute where you can honor a parent, grandparent, spouse, sibling, or dear friend — and in doing so, help sustain our wider community, one that now holds you. It’s a small act with a big meaning: your loved one’s name, remembered each year, alongside a gift that keeps our congregation strong.
What does the book contain?
- The name(s) you include
- Inspirational poems
- Psalms
- Words of comfort
- Memorial service prayers
- Listing of those who have memorial plaques at Oheb Shalom
It’s customary to honor their memory with tzedakah (a charitable donation). While it’s not required, we welcome and appreciate contributions of at least $18.
Honor someone you love. Strengthen the community they were part of. Thank you for your support of Oheb Shalom.
To submit, click the button below by Monday, September 3.
High Holy Days Pop-Up Choirs
PLACEHOLDER TEXT. Be part of making services beautiful at Oheb Shalom for High Holy Days 5787! This year, we are doing things a bit differently. How it works: Each week leading up to Rosh Hashanah, we will have choir rehearsals. Instead of signing up for choir in general, you can sign up by song. Once you register/sign up to be part of a song, you will receive the written music as well as recorded parts. You can sign up to be part of as many or as few songs as you like! Maybe you want to dip your toe in and sign up for one or two? Maybe you want to do a little more or all of it? We will be doing a mix of classics and some new selections.
Candle-Lighting Times
Updated for 5787. Jewish families light candles at the start of festivals and shabbat. Traditionally this is done 18 minutes before sunset, or earlier on the first night of the holiday, and then once dark hits on the second night of the holiday. The times below are helpful guidance for those looking to take on this practice – whether you light candles the right moment or just the right night, may their glow fill your home and heart with peace, hope, and illumination.
Rosh Hashanah – 6:55 pm
Yom Kippur – 6:39 pm
Sukkot – 6:31 pm
Shemini Atzeret – 6:19 pm
Simchat Torah – 7:16 pm
